Let's Talk About Sex....

NO, Not like THAT silly!!! This is NOT a scandalous post!!!

I mean Male and Female! Girl, Boy! Dude, dudette! 

I want to talk about the differences in men and women. The details that each pay attention to, and some of the areas each lack in as well. 

THIS IS PURELY BASED ON MY OPINIONS AND EXPERIENCES.

Women:

Attention to time

Attention to care

Loving

Giving

Serving

Strong

Opinionated 

Independent AND dependent 

Emotional thinkers

People Pleasers 

Need "Me" time

Need to hear they are Needed

Men:

Attention to facts

Wise

Macho

Lack attention to time

Independent AND dependent

Need attention and affection

Worry more than you think

Hard Workers

Like many hobbies 

With these two lists of characteristics/habits I have noted, what point did I make for BOTH men and women?..........

Yup- Independent AND Dependent.

Two strong aspects to a personality in both sexes. It is OK to ask for help. It is ALSO OK to do it yourself. Be strong and fierce and wise in the things you do. Be uncomfortable and willing to learn with the things you don't normally do.

We have seen this a lot as C and I opened our Chiropractic practice. We each bring our own strengths AND weaknesses to the table when it comes to owning and running a business. Being able to see the good and the bad and which to focus on at a specific time IS HARD. 

It is SOOOO easy to focus on what we are "bad" at. Whether I feel I am lacking in an area or whether my hubby is lacking in an area. It is easy to focus on the downs.

I am consciously making a point lately to both uplift my hubby AND myself. I am saying it is perfectly fine to say I AM GOOD AT.......(fill in the blank) and it is ok to admit I NEED HELP WITH.....(fill in the blank).

But it is NOT OK to give up and settle. 

Push yourself men and women.

Lift each other up girls and boys.

And ultimately LOVE one another for how we are different and yet similar in many ways Ladies and Gents! 

Aligning the sexes ;-)

E xoxo